This is a test. How are you going to respond?
By choosing to address things in this manner, it doesn’t matter how other people might see the situation. It doens’t matter what actions other people might choose to take.
It puts everything within your control.
Every potentially negative circumstance provides an opportunity to hone your behaviour, to test yourself against the ideal of who you’d like to be.
You can reflect on your actions at the end of each day.
You get a chance to look at where you came up short. You get a chance to try and make sure it doesn’t happen again.
Next time. In the next test.