Why do you do things the way you do?
Why do you behave a certain way? Why do you believe certain things? Why do you think certain thoughts? Why do you hold certain things to be true?
Instead of having to justify your point of view, ask instead why you should change your mind.
Change should have some justification.
Especially if that change seems contrary to our nature. Or against the pattern of what seems natural.
You think things should change?