Humans have certain ways in which we’re programmed to behave, certain things we’ve come to see as desirable over many years of programming.
We have a gut feeling for what these are, a natural instinct.
Often we know what we should do. Nature gives us a pretty clear indication of what is normal and what is not, what is making us better and what is making us worse, what lifts us up and what drags us down.
We just have to choose to listen.
Each decision we make is a chance to do just that.
We can follow our gut or we can try to second guess it. We can do what we know want to or we can hedge our options and try to appease someone else.
Just do what comes naturally.