Shame on me.
We will make mistakes. That much is certain. We will occasionally fall into what we want to avoid.
Doing it once is understandable.
It’s a chance to learn. To recognise what has happened and see what we can do about it.
When it becomes a problem is if it keeps happening, when we don’t learn.
Then something is wrong.
We need to change our approach. We need to really start paying attention.
Make sure we don’t get fooled again.